I read an article recently about a celebrity dancer named Katya Jones as she aks her fans for dating advice. The theme of the article was that due to lock down she can’t get a date. At first glance, I was like “WHAT??? How is this VERY attractive girl having an issue meeting guys?”
Then it hit me, see it isn’t that SHE can’t find guy’s. It’s that guys don’t approach her. She said in the article that she’s old fashioned and doesn’t want to use dating apps. I can respect that and furthermore I think this is the norm WAY more than what the cultural narrative reinforces.The narrative says that all young and extremely attractive women like to party, do coke and want a life that looks like something out of a P Diddy video circa 97′.
My experience is that most women want a normal life with someone that they can take care of and be taken care of as well. It’s not all glitz and glam. Are there women that want that crazy life? SURE! but it’s not as common as most guys think. Typically the more attractive they are, the more lonely they are.
Bottom line, that tells me, stop making up and believing false narratives. Hell, do a social experiment and find out what she’s about, you may be pleasantly surprised.
I’m telling you, man, There are TONS talk about here. I even made an entire video discussing my thoughts on this particular article. Click here to watch it on YouTube.
If you want know my take on female psychology when it comes to dating and relationships you can read it here.
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Let’s get it! – Dale Valor