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How To Eliminate Neediness

How To Eliminate Neediness When You Are Talking To The Woman

How You Can Eliminate Neediness [MINDSET Shifts To Make]:

Realize you’re born happy, and you don’t need anything outside yourself to be happy.  Greed and entitlement comes from fear, fear of losing what you believe you need to survive. 

You don’t necessarily need that one girl to have sex with you.  You don’t need the approval of others. And, you don’t need that specific woman to like you. 

When you work on yourself and become the best version of yourself, you will attract women into your life. 

However, it doesn’t have to be that specific woman, so there is no reason to feel like you need any woman to like you. 

Furthermore, if a woman doesn’t like you, trust her judgement.  She isn’t the one for you right now.  Move on.


How You Can Eliminate Neediness [ACTION Steps To Take ]:



When a man becomes obsessed with a member of the opposite sex, usually it is because he lacks hobbies and a purpose. 

If you have things going on in your life, you have less time to obsess over that woman you have a crush on. 

Finding out activities you enjoy, trying new things, and developing a passion for something like painting, sports, partying, traveling, games, inventing, reading, socializing, shopping, working, exercising, etc. can help you become a man with an ecosystem that feeds you. 

That way, you won’t feel the need to suck the life from that woman in your life.  You already have a life and you can instead share it with her.

If you want to learn more on how to show a girl that you like her without being needy…

I made an entire video on this a couple months back. You can watch it here.

And if you have questions specific to your current situation, or if you want to start working on improving your dating life but don’t know how to get started., You can schedule a free coaching call here so you can start getting results.

-Troy

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